To give perspective on my balanced life here is a timeline of two of my weekdays:
7 AM: Gets woken up by roommates alarm
7 AM-8 AM: Tries to fall back asleep as roommate is getting ready, doing her best to be quite, but still making noise.
8 AM-9 AM- In a semi-sleep state of sleep waiting for my own alarm
9 AM-10:30Am- Getting ready for the day, while listening to music, dancing around my room and trying to find all the items I will need for the day.
11 AM- 1 PM: Class… not much to say on that yet
1 PM- 1:30 PM: late lunch with friends
1:30 PM- 3 PM: office hours for my job, answering emails, creating power points, and putting out any fires of that day
3 PM -4 PM: Meeting with the Dean of housing to discuss hosing related changes
4 PM-5 PM: meeting with publicity to talk over concepts of advertisements for upcoming event
5 PM- 6 PM: Bids committee writing- writing the awards nominations we are bidding for on a regional and national scale
6 PM- 7 PM impromptu meeting for upcoming event
7 PM- 10 PM: Homework time and catching up on emails
10 PM- 11 PM: reading, and relaxing and getting ready for bed.
11 PM- 7 AM- SLEEP!!
7 AM: Gets woken up by roommates alarm
7 AM-8 AM: Tries to fall back asleep as roommate is getting ready, doing her best to be quite, but still making noise.
8 AM-9 AM- In a semi-sleep state of sleep waiting for my own alarm
9 AM-10:30Am- Getting ready for the day, while listening to music, dancing around my room and trying to find all the items I will need for the day
11 AM – 12 PM- Class… not much to say on that yet
12 PM- 1 PM- Lunch with friends
1 PM- 3 PM- Class… not much to say on that yet
3 PM- 5 PM- Social time! Hang with friends, have homework time, catch up on work, or take a nap
5 PM- 6 PM: Dinner
6 PM- 7 PM: Committee planning said upcoming program
7 PM-10 PM: finishing homework and watching Netflix
10 PM- 11 PM: reading, and relaxing and getting ready for bed.
11 PM- 7 AM- SLEEP!!
The ultimate balance for college students: school life, work life, social life.
I am no expert, however, working a pat time job for three of my four years of college, having an active social life and passing (most) of my classes I’ am qualified to give some advice. As you can read above I have two very different kinds of days, one day I am packed with work and school and have little time to socialize. The other day I still have work and school, but more casual time to do what I wish.
School:
School is something we are engrained to do as we enter class when we are six years old. When we graduate from High school we feel free until, if you choose, to join college. In college, we have to keep a balance for ourselves unlike in high school. In college, we get to set our day to day timeline. I have always enjoyed being at school and learning on the other hand writing paper after paper is not one of the most enjoyable things ever. As I said above in my four years of college I have not passed a class. I have gotten two D’s in my college career one I was able to retake the class and changed it from a D to and A (my GPA thanked me) the other was a class I knew I would struggle and dealing with personal issues at the time I just let that class fall behind. Some tips I have for school:
• Work for small period of time: 15-20 minutes straight of reading or writing, 5-10 minute break
• Find a place with the right amount of noise. If you are someone who needs silence the find a study room or quite space. If you need some background noise go to your campus main student center or library.
• Put your phone away.
• Find how you organize your work, I like to write a to-do list. Some need a calendar, some like their phones, find your way.
• Find yourself stressing? Get up and get away for 10-15-30 minutes, leave the situation and it will help give you and your brain a break.
Work:
I have been blessed with working in jobs I love. I know that the two jobs I have had in college have or will help be in my career. I know not everyone can say this. Some might have to work in food or with people and that is not what they do. If you do not work I would suggest still finding a club or volunteer origination to give your time. Doing other things are great resume builders or a nice relaxing break in your day if you have a fun club meeting. Some tips I have for work.
• If possible find a job you like.
• If not find small thing you like about your job: a customer, a co-worker, a task something.
• Be active if you do not have a job volunteer or join a club.
• Remember you are a student first.
• When you are at work be at work when you are not don’t work (My biggest struggle)
Social:
So I am a very excited extrovert and I love people and being social. However, I can get very tired and overextended when it comes to people. Part of my job is to be in front of big crowds on a weekly basis and that can have its toll on anyone. So I have to remind myself that I don’t have to be around people all the time. I will make a day to be more social on the weekends than on the weekdays I try and stop people I know in the hallways or around campus when I see them to get in a small 5 minutes conversation which is better than none. Some tips I have on staying social.
• Utilize social media: send a snapchat or text to show people you are thinking of them without having to take a lot of time out of your day.
• Have small breaks throughout your day? Use them to get coffee with a friend or study dates.
• Take time to be alone, so when you are with people you want to be with them.
• Remember you don’t have to be with people.
• Take a day or two to just focus on your social ties.